Although her death was expected please know that you are not alone at this time. Sally was a courageous young woman who never faltered in her determination to fight her illness. I admired the way she thoroughly researched all available treatment options, asked direct and open questions, and remained optimistic. I recall the time Sally came to my office after her first chemotherapy treatment looking sad and upset. She had suffered severe side effects from the chemo and was very tired.
We had a long talk during that visit and Sally thanked me for being open and honest with her. She came over and gave me a hug and I will never forget that moment. Sally was a very special human being. Sally was always so close to you, her mother. I plan to phone you within the next few weeks to see how you are doing. Palliative Care. She was always quick to start a conversation and I will miss her wisdom and great stories of times gone by.
I hope that you will find the inner strength to get you through this sad and difficult time. You have my very deepest and sincere sympathy. There is just no other loss that measures up to this one. We join in with everyone who knew your mom in wishing you peace and comfort as you face this very sad time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your wonderful family. Having lost my mom less than a year ago, I know full well the grief and sadness you are feeling right now. I know that the thoughts are no doubt overwhelming that nothing ever will quite be the same.
That certainly is true, however, soon you will have the memory of your mom that will live on in your heart and mind as well as in the hearts and minds of all of us who knew and loved her. Using a source of faith can be of great comfort to someone suffering the loss of a loved one.
These are some examples of how to use words of faith and religion to console and offer hope to someone who had lost their mother. Our thoughts and prayers, and those of so many others who knew her, are with you at this sad and difficult time.
Your mother was blessed with so many wonderful experiences and a long and productive life. You must feel blessed as well to have had her a part of your life for so long. Our faith tells us that God is showering his blessings on you at this very moment as well. She was a radiant and wonderful lady who enjoyed life to the fullest. I know that it seems like a sad ending of a life, but I have faith that your mom is on a wondrous journey to reap her just rewards.
Hers was a good and blessed life and the happiness and joy that she brought to all of us will live on in her memory. Her angelic smile and sweet voice made her a joy to be around. I will miss her dearly. May your faith guide you and comfort you in your sadness.
I know what a difficult time it is for you. I think that when God created mothers as the very special people that they are, that He had your mom in mind already. She was truly one of those blessed and good people who are full of so much grace and dignity. I know your faith will comfort you. My prayers will be for you and your family to find the peace and strength that comes in knowing that a loved one has gone to their eternal rest.
I am so sorry to read your devastating news. I never met your Dad, but know how wonderful and supportive he was to you over the years and can only start to imagine what you are feeling now. You will gradually find comfort in all the happy memories.
Your parents found their new life in Australia and lived the last years of his life in contentment there, surrounded by family. Your dad lived to see you find happiness and security and love. He will have died content for knowing that. AND best of all he did not suffer a long illness. Losing a parent takes time to process for us mortals. Do you remember I was in the aftermath of losing my dad when we first became close?
I wish I could be with you to try to help somehow. Dear Eugene, It really saddened me when I heard about the ill-timed death of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Robert was a great human being, and he will be sorely be missed. I was very shocked when I heard of his demise owing to illness. Throughout the night, I kept reminiscing all the wonderful times I had with him. He was like a father to me. I especially remember the time he took us fishing to the lake, we caught the most amazing fish I had ever seen, and the barbecue we did afterwards was unforgettable.
I cannot even imagine the sorrow your mother must be feeling, but please give her my condolences, and also tell her I will come to visit her soon. In this tough time, Eugene, you have to be equally tough, and take your family through this period of sorrow. I can understand how hard it must be for you, as you too were very close to him.
But being the elder son the family, you must bring yourself together, and take care of everyone else, especially your mother. She too will be in a fragile mental state. So keep her happy at all times and remember, great human beings do not die, but live forever through the lives they have touched, and the good principles they have instilled in their children.
My prayers are with you and your family, Robert was a great person who touched many lives, including mine. My problem is that I am writing to the best friend of the deceased, who was a long time lover a long time ago. I know the man that I am writing to, but we had a kind of adversarial relationship.
Yet we are both hurting from the loss. What do I say? This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Last Updated: May 7, Begin by acknowledging the loss and be direct. Remember to refer to the deceased by their name as well. Express your sympathy in whatever way you choose. You can use a sympathy message here for some inspiration You could talk about the deceased and a favourite memory you had of them.
Maybe a funny anecdote or warm memory.
Instead, offer them specific things that you are comfortable doing for them. Certain favors, like taking their kids for some time during the weekend or dropping off some food, are good options. These are tangible offers of help that the bereaved can accept.
Your condolence letters will look different depending on who you send it to. Here are some sample condolence letters for a variety of occasions. I was sorry to hear about your father passing away. Every relationship is different, and every loss we suffer is unique to us. I only met your dad a few times, but I know he was so proud of you.
He was so excited about your recent promotion. I was sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. While I never met Levi, I do know the two of you were very close. I do not doubt that his death is very hard for you and the rest of your family. Nina was a very special woman. I have such fond memories of growing up and spending the night at your house. She always tried to include me in special events like shopping for prom dresses and birthday celebrations.
I still remember the cake she baked for my 21st birthday. Her love meant more to me than I could ever express. It means so much to me that now our little girls are friends, too. I know you want to keep Sarah close to you right now. I am so sorry to hear that Uncle Brad has passed away. He fought hard against his cancer diagnosis.
No matter how sick he felt, I never heard him complain or act defeated. That was so in-character for him. He was always committed to tackling whatever was in his path. I never met anyone with more perseverance. I remember meeting her last year at the company Christmas party. She was so warm and kind. I enjoyed getting to talk to her. The two of you had such a special relationship.
I wanted to let you know not to worry about taking some time off from work. Just take your time healing and spend some time with the kids. Tyrone was more than just a valued member of our team. He was the heart and soul of this office. Whenever anyone needed something, whether it was help with work or to talk through something personal, he was always there. Whatever you need, we will help in any way we can. If not, you can acknowledge how much the person meant to the recipient.
I was sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Although I never met Mr Smith, I admired your stories about the time you spent together growing up. I know you will miss him. Mary was such a fun-loving person, and I appreciated her wry sense of humor. I will always remember how she prided herself on baking the perfect coconut cake from scratch.
Suffering a loss in the family can present a variety of challenges, many of them unforeseen. If you are able to visit or offer assistance, be sure to say so in your letter. If you would like, I can come by this week and bring a dish for other visitors that you may receive. Please let me know if there is anything else I can do to help. I hope you will find comfort in your friends and family during this difficult time. Focus your letter on acknowledging the deceased person's life rather than the circumstances of the person's death, which may be difficult for the recipient to recount.
But be genuine: if you did not know the deceased person well, offer general expressions of sympathy rather than trying to force a specific anecdote. Also, if you do not know the recipient's religious beliefs, you should be cautious about making references to faith. Back to Letters and invitations. Choosing the right greeting and sign off. How to write letters of condolence When someone you know experiences a loved one's death, sending a personal note is a good way to express your sympathy and support.
This page offers guidelines for writing a letter of condolence.